There will always be chaos, there won't be a day with out it. What I do to find peace while I'm in the midst of chaos, is to push all negativity aside and make sure that I'm focused on the things that make me happy. You will certainly come across difficult obstacles and they won't be easy to get past but we can all do it. That's what strength if for. A lot chaos comes from "what ifs". People are to worried about what happened in the past and are worried about what is coming up next. I only focus on the present, where I'm at right now and I only engage on what I'm doing right now. I try not to worry much because that causes stress which causes chaos. I find peace in chaos by not getting too overwhelmed with all of the negativity.